Loving Without Losing Yourself: How to Set Boundaries and Still Stay Close
Photo: Istock Modern relationships often blur the line between closeness and constant availability. Texts answered instantly. Plans rearranged at the last minute. Personal time quietly sacrificed in the name of love. At first, it feels generous. Over time, it feels exhausting. Real intimacy should never cost you your sense of self. Boundaries are often misunderstood as distance or coldness, yet they are one of the healthiest foundations a relationship can have. They define how you want to be treated, how you protect your energy, and how much of yourself you’re willing to give without resentment. Far from pushing a partner away, they create clarity and respect. Photo: Getty images Think of boundaries as everyday decisions rather than dramatic declarations. Protect your time the same way you protect your work deadlines. Keep space for friends, solo evenings, and personal goals. You don’t need to explain why you can’t make every plan or answer every cal...