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No one is entirely immune to the legendary cupid's arrow, we've all felt or will feel it at a time. The signs are obvious when you're falling for someone, thinking about them every second, the nervous feeling when around them, the feeling of butterflies in your stomach, the unquenchable desire to hear from them and the need to look spiffy  just to impress them. The truth is, no one can tell when this thing happen, there are no maps of the change falling in love brings and most times it happens when you think you're past that sort of thing or not ready for it. Your Relationship doesn't Feel Forced Being with your partner feels easy, you don't have to work hard to make things take their desired form. To spend time with them becomes what you really want, even a day spent together is not enough. When you argue, it's no longer a battle of superiority like it used to in the past, you're not worried to accept your fault and apologize.  You get

I haven't written for close to two months now. During this period I've received tad above dozen emails asking virtually the same question 'how to manage career and relationship.' Actually, truth be told balancing this can be tough if your career is demanding (especially when building one) and if you're not careful you might lose on both ends. But not to worry I'll do my best to point out how we can go round this in order to become like one of those sucessful professionals we admire. This post is specially for those who emailed me and for anyone who need an extra knowledge. Below are some ways I've explained, I hope it helps. Priotize Sometimes life forces us to focus more on one thing than the other, therefore shifting our priority forgoing one goal in exchange for another and weakening one's hold to fulfill the other. It's not right for you to sacrifice one aspect of your life for another. What to do- Do not let your relationship interfe