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We want the best in everything we are involved in, it’s in our nature as humans, but life as we know is not a pedestal of perfection and so is relationship. If you have a good relationship and want to make things better this post is for you or if you are trying to save your 'ship' from sinking this post for you. Appreciate. The major problem with most relationship is the entitlement mentality of some people. Gifts, surprises, and care should not be one sided, no matter how little a gift or act of kindness you get act/ look pleased, and if what you recieved is below your expectations do not talk about it in the moment.   Tone Matters. The truth is you can be right, but wrong at the top of your voice do not be insensitive when making your point known. Generally, because of things left unsaid, one’s reaction to the most trivial thing could be extra. Forgive. Forgetfulness is common and no one is above it probably because we all have things we are deal

It’s undeniable that a good percentage of us in relationships are or have been depressed at one point in time. This could be as a result of various reasons. Sometimes, we hold our partners accountable and by so doing transfer aggressions on them using words and actions forgetting that our partners are humans and have blood flowing through their veins, that is to say your partner could be crushed by your words and actions. If you feel things have derailed a bit in your relationship, and its making you feel depressed these ways listed below will help you go around it. 1. Get busy; get yourself to do something, get busy with work or make your passion come alive an idle mind is a space for assumptions and depression, too. 2.   Make new friends, the reason for your depression could be as a result of your closed circle that is letting your friends go because you are hooked up.     3 .    Communication is a key ingredient, talk about whatever it is in your relationship

                                                   As we are aware relationship/marriage is not a bed of roses. Every relationship has its ups and downs and the honeymoon stage of a relationship does not always stay forever. The question is have you over the months/years come to the sudden realization that the sweet touchy romance you once shared at the beginning has fizzled, and this has made you blame your partner/spouse for the distance in the relationship. It’s important to go back to where it all started you will be surprised,  that you might be as guilty as your spouse for the friction. These few ways listed below will serve as a road-map  in reviving your already fizzled or fizzling relationship. Communicate More. I have always stressed communication as a vital key for any relationship. Talk about whatsoever you feel might be the cause of the friction/distance between you and your partner, it could be stress/pressure from work, family, friends etc.  Talk abo