7 Signs Your Friend Has A Crush On You





As much as we think we know our friends, most times we miss the glaring telltale signs that our "dear friends" want more than being "just friends" with us we keep going round in circles searching for the perfect person for us while the right person has been standing by, always there to hold our hands through the horrible breakups we've been through, while others around us see the signs that our "good friend" has fallen deep for us we tend to be  blind, and consider them the last persons we wish to end up with, well here are some few signs to help you out.



1.   Listens to you

As humans one of the things we desire when it comes to our association with others is someone who listens to what we have to say and take us serious. If your friend pays close attention every time to whatever you have to say without judging you for your actions, and sits through every boring story you share, and doesn't mind how many times you have told a story, remembers every random thing you said in the past, if he is there to listen to your pain, struggle and knows the right thing to say to you, this is a telltale sign the person has a thing for you.

2.   Tolerate your excesses

Does your friend accept you for who you are by keeping up with your personality even when others consider it to be crazy, complicated, overbearing? Is he not judgy, but rather gives you a room to be yourself whenever you're together?  He doesn't take offense in anything you do or say to him? If the answers to these is what I''m thinking then my friend it's a sign he wants to be more than just-a- friend.

3.    Go out of his way for you

Generally people tend to go out of their way to do things for people they really like, but most times if a person is naturally nice we tend to miss the point. So if your friend always go out of his way to make you happy, and make the most uncomfortable situation comfortable just for you without thinking of himself, and is ready to go extra miles to do things he wouldn't have done for just-a-friend then it means someone (your  friend) likes you a little bit too much.

4.     Hate to see you hurt

He hates to see you in pain, and any negative thing that affects you does same to him most times to your surprise he even feels the pain of whatever you're going through a little bit more than you do, well this is a sign that your dear friend clearly has a crush on you.

5.   Always seem available

Does your friend  show up at every given time you need him? And would rather let go whatever he is doing just to spend time with you? Think about it, he has never disappointed you, but rather seek out excuse just to be with. If this is not a sign he has a crush on you I don't know what else is.

6.   Never talk about their relationship

If your friend finds it difficult in bringing up discussion that leads to his relationship or has been single for as long as you can remember, and does not seem to be interested in anyone in particular, but waiting for that fictional perfect person who's attributes clearly matches yours it's a sign he's into you.

7. Compliment you a lot

Some people are quite generous at dishing out compliment while others are not, but if your friend is not very good in the compliment department, but tends to notice every little details, change, look and compliments you more than he does with others, and his compliment tend to be more personal this is a huge sign he likes you.






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