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Saturdays are meant for rest, but for must of us its a day to play dress up. With a list of parties, weddings, birthdays, house warmings, concert e.t.c. For the guys picking an outfit for this can be a litttle bit of work not to worry these outfits I have picked for you guys are absolutely wonderful, and they are classy and you'll be sure to find something you love .

 She met him him during her final year at the University, he was about thirty five and rather a good looking man he was over six foot tall, of athlete build- he looked as if he might be a sportsman with the most welcoming smile. She had a weakness for big men, and it was love at first sight like her whole body directed her to him. Time literally slowed down luckily a friend of hers introduced them, and they talked about everything she found out that not only did they share so many interest, but birthday. They became inseparable, and as weeks turned into months and years their bond grew stronger. He treated her with respect, they went on vacations several times to different parts of the world, never raised his voice at her, and was there for her at all time, she found herself  falling deeper in love with him. Although they lived in different cities he made it a routine to visit her every month. When he was  too busy to visit he made travelling arrangements for ...

Brothers only!!!..In this world we live with the whole drama around it's actually difficult in today's society to tell when a girl is into you when she actually thinks of you as just a ''friend'' or a ''cool'' guy. There have been many post from people who do not really understand the woman's mind on ''how to tell if she's really into you'' i read somewhere that it's been scientifically proven that when a guy likes a girl he'll look into her eyes, but when a girl likes a guy she'll look away i don't think this theory is totally true remember there are shy girls who find it awkward looking into people's eyes you might end up getting a wrong impression i'm just saying. So are you hoping a special girl likes you, but don't know how to tell if she's really into you?  Are you looking for give away signs to tell if she thinks about you? What does it mean when she laughs at your dumb jokes..t...

For most people every working day especially monday comes with its fear, doubt; from what to wear to work, going back to unfinished work at the office, and it's typical for most women to wake up every working morning staring at piles of clothes, and saying the same thing ''I have nothing to wear'' well, not to worry i have pieced together some outfits that will help you refresh your work look, simple and classy work outfits perfect for all jobs. If you like this post on ""chic work outfits for women" drop a comment or subscribe to my post.

Experience has taught me that honesty is the most important aspect of a relationship, there is that confidence that comes from within when you know you can trust your partner it makes you feel good about yourself and life in general. Many people feel that keeping secrets or lies from their past may spare their partners some pain, but in most cases this is wrong; no matter how terrible your past was talk to your partner about it, trying to protect them can create a bigger damage. It's surprising when asked about qualities you want in a relationship and honesty comes first when most people are not close to that with their partners. If you intend to keep covering one secret to make things look better it could actually bring your relationship to a catastrophic end; It is better you tell your partner everything and anything than keeping it away from them. The most hurtful thing is for your partner to get to hear of your secrets and lies from someone else this has led to the de...

Deciding on what to wear for dates can be pretty tough sure, we go through several wardrobe changes before making a final decision on what outfit to wear. It is important to be strategic in your choices since what you wear matters a lot more than you are aware of. Dressing is like self branding it tells people who you really are before you even get a chance to speak most times people use a cloth to determine if you are likeable or not so be wise. You have to dress to match the occasion more formal to match evening date and if it's day time keep it casual though it is always good to go with your gut don't over do it most importantly when in doubt wear your favourite things. For this I have picked out different pieces and paired them into two categories formal and casual. The Formal Date This could be in the evening it might be a dinner, or a movie and requires you to dress in nicer, fancier clothes. For this purpose a dress is a perfect choice because it does n...

I made an audio on ''domestic violence'' a while ago and shared amongst my contacts as anticipated because of the delicate nature of the topic I got a lot of comments, but a particular comment blew my wheels which is actually the reason for this post here is a verbatim of his message  ''most of these women deserve what they get, they are stubborn when you ask them to do something they end up doing the opposite, they give unsolicited advice and these can be aggravating so hitting them becomes an option" (Yes, I had that exact look on your face too) For the benefit of doubt I asked what he would do if his sister's husband beats her up, and his response was;  ''nothing, she probably deserved it" at this point I almost fell off my chair. I tried giving him some lectures on how a woman is supposed to be treated with respect, I tried telling him how wrong he was to think of his partner in such demeaning way, I even tried explaining t...